How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 03.07.2025 01:28

How does one succeed in life?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Hangs out with loser friends.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Making more friends is a goal.

How do you view men and women who cheat?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Why do you think Democrat favorability ratings are so low?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Procrastinates a lot.

Why does my crush always looks at me in a sad way whenever I talk with other boys, and if he catch me staring on him then he go and flirt with other girls and then check if I am looking at him?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Do you think most people would rather be a certain race or are most people happy with the race they are?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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Does not procrastinate.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

What's the funniest thing you heard in a movie theater?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

What I need from you?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Ask yourself:

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

That's it for today.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Living to your full potential is a goal.